Forgive and Forget
If someone does something wrong and you decide to forgive them for it, you need to actually forgive them for it and thenforget about it. You can’t bring it back up again and again later and shove it in their face as a way to shame them. That isn’t how mature couples act.
it hurt when I stumbled across her.
she was like broken glass all along the floor.
but it was beautiful and my curiosity got the best of me.
I remember looking at her and all I could see was pain.
she had this insane look of desperation; you could almost feel it.
and yet her eyes were still hollow; like the life had been sucked out of her.
I wanted to pick up her pieces.
I wanted to put her back together.
and so I tried. I really did.
I got a little cut along the way.
the more I tried to fix her the more fragile I became myself but I didn’t care.
I wanted to see her happy.
every time I made her laugh I thought about how I wanted to make her laugh forever.
she was getting better.
eventually she was put together enough to get up and walk away.
but she didn’t take me with her.
and I’ve been stuck sitting here where I first found her.
wondering if the pieces left on the floor are hers or mine.
I should probably get the fuck up.
oh my fucking godfuck 😭
Research shows that young children develop one of three attachment styles to their parent, or main caregiver. This affects the way they attach to their partners in adulthood. The three types of attachment are:
1. Secure attachment
- Securely attached children…